Jan the Sentimental, part 2

I have just received an e-mail from my soulmate and I am crying over this damn keyboard...
The Smiths once made a song called "Still ill" and it goes like this:
But we cannot cling
to the old dreams anymore,
no, we cannot cling
to those dreams.
Does the body rule the mind
or does the mind rule the body?
I dunno...